Hope you all have had a blessed day today....
I'm back and I have realized that this is going to end up becoming a reoccurring topic on my blog, so keep following... I'm really loving all the input that you guys (and girls) are providing.
Well here are my new questions for the week (not as angry but I'm still very concerned about certain things.)
Here goes
Why is it that people are so concerned with Everyone's life but their own?
Prime example: MJ (RIP) you all know where I'm going with that example so there's no need to go in depth, but I do have an example that deals with things closer to home (in a sense). Now before you jump to conclusions about what I'm about to say, this question is closely related to those who only find the negative in everything you say. Think about it... there two types of people who ask you about your day;
A.those who really want to know and
B.those who really could care less
and even then you could break it down further..
A.
1. Those who really care about you
2. those who need something to talk about
B.
1. those who are just making small talk
2. those who don't want to be rude and feel the need to ask because you asked first *smh*
and it continues from there.
Seriously, I tested this theory. A person called just to "check in" and I told them somethings that weren't completely true (now though I actually feel bad about sinking to that level just to find the truth... but I digress) and NO LIE... what I said got back to me within the next 30 mins. *WTFudge!!!*
Why is that? I mean, I know that everyday in one's life can't be filled with joyous (catch the sarcasm) activity, but I really don't understand why people dwell on making others upset/miserable. Ugh...
NEXT!
Why do others tell you that they want you to speak what you feel, but get really upset when you try?
*sigh* Not gonna dwell on it, but this is the main question in this blog I'd love to hear your responses to...
Why are we all so eager for others to tell us what we want to hear than for them to tell us what we need to hear and why does it seems so hard to except what we need?
Yes, I'm guilty of this too, but I have never understood why people feel that its easier to beat around the bush. Especially when the truth usually comes to the light. I am getting better every day at telling people how you feel and what you feel right then and there. But sometimes it's tough when you know you don't want to see the person you are talking to get hurt by the things you say. So why are we trained to keep people wondering if we are really helping or hurting them more in the long run?
Well, this is it for now. Have at it. :^)
